Welcome to The B-List.
Part story, part toolbox: ideas on finding success and personal fulfillment in music.
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Pathway practicing
When we practice in a truly productive way, we identify the difficult transitions and dissect the issues using informed practice techniques from the toolbox we fill during our studies. In turn, our brain builds stronger and stronger pathways for the actions we need.
A moving target
Success becomes available to you when you tap into the joy of learning how to identify it for yourself.
Holding space for yourself
It’s not simple, but you have to remember that in life and in music, no one holds all the answers for you. You have what you need to create the space that feels like home, but you have to be willing to hold that space for yourself. No one else can do it for you.
Trusting the experience
What happens if you truly focus on the feeling of playing in this exact moment?
Dear Future Me
Writing to ourselves in this way lets us acknowledge all the work we have already done, all the things we already know to be true about ourselves, and all the ways we hope we will honor that knowledge in the future.
Oxygen over-saturation in life and flute playing
Most of us habitually over-breathe. Check yourself right now: is your mouth open? Are you breathing in and out of your mouth while you read? Let’s talk about how your everyday breathing habits are affecting your musicianship.
Note taking: the key to success
Suggestions for how we can get the most out of our lessons and efforts while in school through tracking and reflection.
Rejection is not a good teacher
Be mindful of how you receive rejection. Be mindful of how you talk to yourself about rejection. It is possible to learn in an intentional way from your own experiences around rejection, but you need to rely on your experience.
Non-self for musicians
At its core, Non-Self provides space for self acceptance, self forgiveness, and a path out of perfectionism.
The root value of connection
What new thing could you do to create genuine connection in your life?
Post-pandemic reflections
Reflect on your habits - what will you change given all the perspective you have gained?
Failure by any other name
Understanding our true experiences, whether they are positive or negative, can bring us a more realistic, satisfying, and fulfilling approach to work and life.
Meaningful growth: a slow burn
Go inside and listen to yourself - what are your goals? Not the big huge ones, the little ones that are really tough to turn into habits that you know will improve your life.
Choice and Change
To sustainably create positive change for yourself, you must choose to be the conscious observer of your thoughts.
Building your toolbox
The moment you realize that you have all the tools at your disposal is the moment you can access your full potential, and it’s available to you any time.
Doing it right (for you)
There are enough people "doing it right" in the world. Trust yourself to do it your way, to follow your intuition, and to share your message even if it's messy.
Practice: developing tools for life
Our awareness, self trust, and the toolbox we build can aide us in navigating both music and life with ease.
Accessing authentic expression
The body is the home of our creativity. By developing a truer understanding of our experience in the world we become adept at helping ourselves adjust to the changes and challenges that will certainly come.