Welcome to The B-List.
Part story, part toolbox: ideas on finding success and personal fulfillment in music.
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A moving target
Success becomes available to you when you tap into the joy of learning how to identify it for yourself.
Holding space for yourself
It’s not simple, but you have to remember that in life and in music, no one holds all the answers for you. You have what you need to create the space that feels like home, but you have to be willing to hold that space for yourself. No one else can do it for you.
When you want to rant
If you didn’t feel any obligation to conform, how would you communicate and share with others?
Uninspired, totally normal
Encouragement to create space and enjoyment in so many places you might otherwise never have found it.
Rejection is not a good teacher
Be mindful of how you receive rejection. Be mindful of how you talk to yourself about rejection. It is possible to learn in an intentional way from your own experiences around rejection, but you need to rely on your experience.
Non-self for musicians
At its core, Non-Self provides space for self acceptance, self forgiveness, and a path out of perfectionism.
The root value of connection
What new thing could you do to create genuine connection in your life?
Post-pandemic reflections
Reflect on your habits - what will you change given all the perspective you have gained?
Meaningful growth: a slow burn
Go inside and listen to yourself - what are your goals? Not the big huge ones, the little ones that are really tough to turn into habits that you know will improve your life.
Choice and Change
To sustainably create positive change for yourself, you must choose to be the conscious observer of your thoughts.
Doing it right (for you)
There are enough people "doing it right" in the world. Trust yourself to do it your way, to follow your intuition, and to share your message even if it's messy.